Sometimes the heart is illogical. When someone does something hurtful, it makes it harder to remember all the things they did right. Fortunately, while you may have a short fuse, you have an even shorter memory when it comes to offenses, especially if you believe they are unintentional. Oddly enough, it takes you a lot longer to forgive yourself. However, you can offer yourself the same amnesty you might extend to anyone else. Stop beating yourself up and allow the past to fade into history.