Some people may attempt to manipulate your behavior by playing on your fears. Although its tempting to get defensive if your domestic security is challenged today, its wiser to take a step back and be strategic instead. Finding flaws with others is easy, but your best move now is to check that your integrity is in place. Connect with your soul before reacting impulsively. No one can mess with you when you deeply respect yourself. First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt said, Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.