How easy it is to get swept up in romantic fantasies today. However, allowing your mental state to become hijacked by fairy tales and vivid imaginings will only derail you. Seeing others as objects to be attained is what cheapens the process of developing deep intimacy. A detached type of love empowers you to connect without taking on responsibility for whats not yours. Cut through superficiality to keep your connections as whole and holy as possible. Demonstrating spiritual maturity attracts hearts with similar agendas.